Is there No Intimacy In Your Marriage? Find out what you can do about Lack of Marriage Intimacy.
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Ever wonder if the ways your husband drives you crazy are normal? Or if you're a husband, the things you can't stand about your wife.
So what are the most common complaints wives have about husbands, and husbands have about wives? To answer that question, here's some research results from the article You're Driving Me Crazy! published in Psychology Today.
When asked to rate their top relationship irritants, men and women give strikingly different answers, reports University of Louisville psychologist Michael Cunningham. Here's what grates on us most.
Men's complaints about women:
Women's complaints about men:
Which one of these complaints do you have? Share a comment below.
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It sounds healthy if all the do's and don'ts are followed. But that would be like two saints arguing. Minor conflict resolution would be a big help to kids in later life.
Another way it could be helpful is for kids to learn self-soothing skills. By seeing a disagreement play out and then getting to witness how the couple handle themselves AFTER the fight would provide the kids with invaluable life messages where conflict in real life is met with maturity and kindness. I am all for life skills.. So even having mock arguments where the kids learn these skills before a real argument ensues would be beneficial to their emotions. These mock arguments could even be played out to different endings depending on the kid's ages.
Having good relationship skills helps one throughout their entire life.
Hello. I will assume you hate something the other person is doing, the behavior, and not the person themself. You married them so one would think you don't actually hate them. It is sad to think that a married person (either one) feels hated by their spouse. We rely on them to provide us with the things that being married takes off the table. (flirting, deep conversations, intimacy, etc..)
So first, I would make sure the partner knows it is not "them'' that you hate but the behavior. This distinction makes and leaves the core person still okay.
The complaint looking at other women sticks out like a sore thumb. The other complaints are minor infractions that can be corrected immediately if they choose to. But where the eyes are heading the body is wont to follow. The problem is much deeper.
He cheated so obviously my choice is the 'staring at of other women'.. But I would like to add another 2 complaints (if I may, Kurt).. when he "dismisses you" or "talks over you". It cuts you to the bone. This person whom you only want to share with makes you shatter inside. If anyone were to talk to you or treat you on the street that way you would never speak to them again. It hurts that bad.
Thanks