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Porn Addiction

Women think almost every man has one. Men want to believe they don't have a problem.

So what’s the truth about porn addiction and how do you deal with it in your relationship?

The Love is Gone

Having a partner that loves you but is not in love with you is one of the most painful things to accept. And if it comes as a surprise, it can leave you emotionally shattered.

How do you figure out what’s going on in your partner’s head?

Midlife Crisis

Pushing a partner to deal with his midlife crisis can send him deeper into it.

What’s the best way to respond to what your partner is going through? And how do you come out the other side?


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Guy Stuff specializes in counseling for men, focused on what works best for solving men’s problems so results happen as quickly as possible.

For nearly 20 years, I've counseled thousands of men to find success overcoming life’s challenges with a proven approach that is 100%:


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  • "It has been a really great process and David and I have really figured out that marriage takes work and effort. We are both grateful to have found a way to come together and your guidance was very helpful in the process. We have some very powerful habits and personal traits that sometimes work against us, but we are really conscious of them and have promised each other to work to recognize them and to deal with them. Thank you for helping us become a better team in both our professional lives and (mostly) our personal lives!"

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    "Dr. Kurt – thank you for the help – thanks for being there – thanks for making me believe it was okay to stand up for myself – even in dealing with someone like her – and my fears that if I did stand up and value myself – it would push her away even further. Thank you for getting me to value me and listen to your advice."

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    -Krista S.

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