When John lost it in front of his wife and sons again — he knew this time he'd crossed the line. Looking back, he doesn’t know why he threw the salt shaker at the oven in front of the whole family. It just happened.
John’s wife, Sharon, had been asking him for a long time to get control of his anger. He thought he could do it by sheer will or by counting to 10, as so many websites advised him to do. Nothing worked. Nothing he tried could turn him into one of the anger management success stories he wanted to become. So he turned to Guy Stuff Counseling for help.
John came to Guy Stuff where Kurt Smith understood what John was going through. Kurt has struggled with anger issues, too. John immediately felt comfortable sharing and discovered his triggers. He learned 5 tools he could use to stop his anger from getting out of control. He also found out where his anger comes from and began to manage those sources. John’s family is much more relaxed around him now, and he no longer has to feel such intense guilt.