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    The Guy Stuff Counseling Community is a group of visitors just like you who connect and share with each other their experiences on a variety of topics.

    Many of the problems we address are very personal and private, often embarrassing, and something most of us don't want those who know us to know about.

    So where can you find a place to learn, talk with others and feel safe doing it? Right here. The Guy Stuff Community gives you that, and much more.

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    What makes this community unique?

    • Organically grown. We didn't develop this community. It formed out of visitor's desire to connect with others going through the same struggles.

    • Culmination of the wisdom and experiences of more than 12+ million visitors who've come to this website looking for help.

    • More than 10,000 people every day come here to learn, get advice, be encouraged, and find hope.

    Here are just a few of our many popular articles

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      Why Do Men Watch Porn?

      "Hi David, knowing the man you love is watching porn can feel very hurtful. It does not really matter if you believe that to be a legitimate feeling or not..."

      -Justme

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      When Your Husband Doesn't Love You

      "I read your story made me cry..."

      -Vickie

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      Midlife Crisis Stories

      "Hi Lisa and Amanda, I am in a similar situation as you or as a lot of the stories I am reading. I thought I had the perfect marriage...Please let me know how you are dealing with the life change. I am 50 years old, this was my second marriage. I have been so heart broken but making steps to move on with my life. It has been extremely hard."

      -Ana

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      How Come Men Look at Other Women?

      "Hi Diana- I'm basically in the same boat, I came across your remark today trying to justify my husbands doings. My ex did the same ...and I really don't want another divorce but, I don't even think these men realize how hurtful it is! I'm a fairly attractive women as well... I don't understand how he can be so rude and disrespect me as he does??!! Thanks for your time."

      -Wens

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      Can I Get My Husband to Love Me Again?

      "Danielle, Reading your post gives me hope."

      -Rebecca

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      Do You Leave or Stay After an Affair?

      "Men are not always swayed by another woman. Sometimes the woman is swayed by another man and let me tell you now, it's soul crushing. When you find out that your wife of twelve years and mother to your children has been actively seeking a heroine addict while you're at work providing a good life for your family, it kills something inside of you. Trust me, men are capable of feeling this pain."

      -Tom

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      Married to a Controlling Wife

      "My wife does same crap. She tries to act like a man. But even a man is never that cold. Women cannot act like a man because they are not one. I hate pushy women."

      -Robert

    Join the Conversation!

    Find someone else who's going through exactly what you're going through right now. Here's how:

    Step 1: Find a topic that fits you best

    Select one of our most popular problem topics: Porn Addiction, Love is Gone, Midlife Crisis, Abusive Relationships, Cheating Spouse, Divorce Advice, Anger Management, Addictions, Sexual Problems, or Understanding Men.

    Step 2: Browse

    Browse the different articles under your topic, click on a couple that speak to you and read the comment section at the bottom (some have more comments than others).

    Step 3: Comment

    Add a comment giving a brief description of your story or ask a question (be sure to click "Subscribe" so you'll be notified of responses to your post). You're likely to hear back from other visitors who can relate. You can also reply to someone else's comment and begin a conversation.