You have this nagging feeling that your husband is no longer in love with you. Learn what to do next
Love changes, evolves, and matures from what it looked like at the start, and most of us don't adjust our expectations to allow for this reality. Add in the impact of dealing with daily life stress and it leads to many people feeling the love is gone.
Some other common contributors include,
But is the love really gone, or is it possibly just buried?
At Guy Stuff, we most often find that it's the later and can be brought back to life.
As described above, two big factors for why falling out of love happens are unchanged expectations and life stress. But there's more to it than that.
The biggest reason the love fades is because the majority of partners don't work at their relationship, instead they ignore it and take it for granted. Mistakenly assuming it will always stay the same and be there. Wrong.
How regularly do you each do the following?
Got an idea now of what's missing in your relationship?
But getting the love back isn't as simple as following a checklist. There's some major repair work that's needed first.
Yes, every couple can fall back in love. The real question is will they choose to try and put in the work that's required to make it happen.
The good news is that many, many couples have successfully reignited their love, even after feeling like the love is gone. However, rebuilding love takes effort, a plan, patience, and often professional guidance.
Here’s what else it takes:
1. Honest Conversations
Addressing issues openly and without blame.
2. Rebuilding Connection
Spending quality time together and slowly rebuilding intimacy.
3. Getting Professional Help
A relationship counselor can provide tools to navigate this process and ensure that all the underlying problems are resolved.
4. Commitment to Change
Both partners must be willing to put in the work, which can take some time.
Darin and Maria chose to seek counseling with Guy Stuff. It wasn’t easy at first either, but with Dr. Kurt's guidance, they began to understand what went wrong and how to rebuild their relationship. Over time, they reconnected and found a deeper love than they'd ever had before.
Does the lost love in their story sound familiar?
If your relationship feels distant, there is hope for your relationship too.
Love doesn’t have to disappear forever. If your relationship is struggling, take some action today.
Start with our Is the Love Gone Quiz. Assess where your relationship really stands and get some tips from Dr. Kurt.
You deserve a relationship filled with love and connection. And you can get it if you start taking steps toward learning how to rediscover the love.
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