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Common Complaints Wives Have About Husbands - Husbands About Wives

  
  
  
  

Complaints Wives Have About Their Husbands and Complaints Husbands Have About Their WivesPart 1 of 4

Ever wonder if the ways your husband drives you crazy are normal?  Or if you're a husband, the things you can't stand about your wife.

So what are the most common complaints wives have about husbands, and husbands have about wives?  To answer that question, here's some research results from the article You're Driving Me Crazy! published in Psychology Today.

When asked to rate their top relationship irritants, men and women give strikingly different answers, reports University of Louisville psychologist Michael Cunningham. Here's what grates on us most.

Men's complaints about women:

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        • the silent treatment
        • bringing up things he's done in the distant past
        • being too hot or too cold
        • being critical
        • being stubborn and refusing to give in

Women's complaints about men:

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        • forgetting important dates, like birthdays or anniversaries
        • not working hard at his job
        • noisily burping or passing gas
        • staring at other women
        • being stubborn and refusing to give in

Which one of these complaints do you have?  Share a comment below.

* This is the first article of four examining complaints and differences in marriage relationships.  In the next article we'll start looking at 10 beliefs and problems that come from the differences between us and our partners.  Sign-up for our blog on the right side of this page and be sure not to miss any parts of this series (you can get notified by email or RSS feed every time a new article is published).

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