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Wife Caught Cheating, What To Do Next

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It's one of the things we men hope never happens to us -- our wife caught cheating. Yet it's becoming more and more common to hear husbands say they've caught their wife cheating.

How To Stop Cheating


None of us wants to think about our partner cheating. Certainly not before it happens. But taking the time to learn how to stop cheating is one of the best ways to prevent cheating from ever happening in our relationship.

Why Do Men Cheat & Blame Their Partner

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How Do Men Cheat? Here's How

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Part 1 of 2

Is Flirting Cheating? Yes, Flirting Is Cheating.


Hey there, it's Kurt Smith. You know a few days ago on my Google Plus profile I made a post about flirting, and I said that flirting is cheating. 

Why Do Women Cheat? One Woman Explains

why do women cheat

Although there’s not one answer to the question, why do women cheat, there are some frequently repeated reasons. Surprising or not, the reasons why women cheat aren’t that much different from the reasons men do.

Why Do Married Men Cheat? Learn The 3 Reasons

why do married men cheat

Wondering why do married men cheat? Let’s examine the latest high profile cheater, General David Petraeus, to find some answers. Below are excerpts from a USA Today article on Why Do the Powerful Cheat. It gives us a few starting points in understanding why do married men cheat.

Married Man Other Woman - How To Stop & Prevent It

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Got a married man other woman problem? Or maybe you just want to prevent one. Let's see what we can learn from the latest celebrity cheating married man that could help you.

Husband Cheated On Me

Husband Cheated On Me

Women regularly contact Guy Stuff with a message that just says -- "husband cheated on me."

Surviving Infidelity 2x

Surviving Infidelity -- Marriage Counselor Advises

Q: I’m a wife surviving infidelity -- again! I have been married for 3 years now to my second husband. There was infidelity with my first marriage and I have now found out that my current husband has been surfing internet porn and chatting online and has even chatted about secretly meeting people. He states he has not followed through with it but not much more communication with each other beyond that. When I ask about going to a marriage counselor he never answers me and always ignores the question. I am going to schedule an appt for myself but what else can I do to survive infidelity? -- Katie B.

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